Wednesday, February 21, 2007

The Plans Have Changed

This whole wedding thing has proven to be quite stressful - even with only 50-60 people I have found that you still have to do all the same stuff - the church, the ceremony, the music, the program, the reception, the food, the $$$$$$, - even a small cheap wedding is NOT CHEAP!!

So, Mike and I have made a decision . . . we are going to have a VERY small wedding (25 people including the 7 of us!!) - basically our immediate family. We would love so much for more of you to share in our day as we love you very much, however, with renovating our place, and me having carpal tunnel surgery on May 1 (right wrist) and June 5(left wrist) which puts me out of commission for about 8 weeks total, the kids and I moving, etc, etc, etc - it all seems to be overwhelming AND, I REALLY want NEW FLOORING :-) Gotta have priorities!
We will have a small ceremony and more of a dinner party style at my parents house. It actually feels really good and like the right thing for us . . . and DOESNT mean that we dont TOTALLY love all of you . . . we will be on holidays for a couple weeks following the wedding and would love for you to come over for games and food - well, give us a day or two of ALONE TIME please!!!!

LOVE LOVE LOVE, Vaness

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

A nice stress free wedding... what a perfect way to start a marriage!!!

Christina Chaput said...

Yah, I would be staying VERY FAR AWAY for the first... oh... month! :)

Anonymous said...

What the hey!
No one told me!
Congrats.
Janelle